Comments on: “Living with the Dominator” http://blog.heartless-bitches.com/wordpress/index.php/archives/156 HeartlessBitches.com - The View from the Editor's Chair... Mon, 12 Jul 2010 17:01:01 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Annie http://blog.heartless-bitches.com/wordpress/index.php/archives/156/comment-page-1#comment-26735 Annie Sun, 07 Jun 2009 10:45:46 +0000 http://www.heartless-bitches.com/blog/index.php/archives/156#comment-26735 This book would help me a lot as at the start of last year i managed to get out of a 9 year domestic violent relationship with a guy. Unfortunitly I then met a "nice guy" who I was convinced really loved me and wanted to help me at least it started off that way now im in even more of a confused mess and he has gone. I agree with this article fully, when i came out of the violent relationship the only lessons i had really learned was that he was a total jerk and that my survival skills had kept me alive. I have had some pretty horrible comments thrown at me over the years like "oh you must really like being hit then as your still in a relationship with him" "if your unhappy dump him" its not that simple i did try but as the article says about being killed or injured, he did turn very nasty with me and with people who were around me at the time. So to save them and myself I would go back out with him which with hind sight was the worse thing that i could have done but when you're in a situation it is so hard to see the whole picture. I think this book will help a lot of people who have found themselves in the same situation as i have been. Annie This book would help me a lot as at the start of last year i managed to get out of a 9 year domestic violent relationship with a guy. Unfortunitly I then met a “nice guy” who I was convinced really loved me and wanted to help me at least it started off that way now im in even more of a confused mess and he has gone.

I agree with this article fully, when i came out of the violent relationship the only lessons i had really learned was that he was a total jerk and that my survival skills had kept me alive.

I have had some pretty horrible comments thrown at me over the years like “oh you must really like being hit then as your still in a relationship with him” “if your unhappy dump him” its not that simple i did try but as the article says about being killed or injured, he did turn very nasty with me and with people who were around me at the time. So to save them and myself I would go back out with him which with hind sight was the worse thing that i could have done but when you’re in a situation it is so hard to see the whole picture.

I think this book will help a lot of people who have found themselves in the same situation as i have been.

Annie

]]> By: Barbara http://blog.heartless-bitches.com/wordpress/index.php/archives/156/comment-page-1#comment-23146 Barbara Thu, 09 Apr 2009 23:33:39 +0000 http://www.heartless-bitches.com/blog/index.php/archives/156#comment-23146 This book sounds excellent, especially coming from a probation officer's first hand knowledge. Have you read WOMEN WHO LOVE PSYCHOPATHS by Sandra Brown yet? This book sounds excellent, especially coming from a probation officer’s first hand knowledge.

Have you read WOMEN WHO LOVE PSYCHOPATHS by Sandra Brown yet?

]]> By: Natalie P. http://blog.heartless-bitches.com/wordpress/index.php/archives/156/comment-page-1#comment-22742 Natalie P. Wed, 01 Apr 2009 04:17:15 +0000 http://www.heartless-bitches.com/blog/index.php/archives/156#comment-22742 I forgot to mention that Pat also sent me a bunch of business cards that had descriptions of "Mr. Right" (the non-abusive man) on one side, and "Mr. Wrong" (An abusive man) on the other side. It's a great idea. I forgot to mention that Pat also sent me a bunch of business cards that had descriptions of “Mr. Right” (the non-abusive man) on one side, and “Mr. Wrong” (An abusive man) on the other side. It’s a great idea.

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